You and he are ready biting in the aisle . Everything is prepared , ranging from event application , specify the date to the wedding preparations . However , the plan suddenly becomes a mess ( just ) because we do not expect problems before. The following are 16 reasons wary Tips cancel your wedding , so you always have a way to anticipate . That is why there is the term ' People Plan and God only step that Yang Determining ' , so that prayer becomes a thing you can not live without:
1 . Swelling debt .
The cost of the wedding reception is becoming increasingly expensive to make a lot of people , perhaps including you , are forced to borrow from parents or others to increase the amount of savings . Beware growing debt could be the cause of your wedding may be delayed even canceled . Moreover, if there are many who harsu prepared , forced to use credit cards to overlimit . As a result , the debt was bloated before the big event . In order to avoid increasing the debt , the end date pushed back until your forced marriage and she really ready to be economically or find a way to overcome this problem .
2 . Not Parent Compact .
This happens for example when each parent of the two parties have different desires and can not be combined . Do not underestimate the little things , because great things usually arise from minor problems . Take just one example when the parents of the woman mengehendaki wedding implementation is done by Islam , while the men will insist implement with traditional customs . In this case , you and your partner , must be very clever to bridge these differences , and also neutralize the atmosphere in order to always remain ' cool ' .
3 . Severe pain .
The wedding party you 've reached the H - 7 . However , a sudden you or the he fell ill and had to undergo serious treatment in the hospital during that period could not be determined . If this condition was , inevitably pernikhan had to be canceled or postponed until the sick back to health .
4 . He 's been married .
Before you confident accept his proposal , its status should be investigated first . Is it true that he was single or perhaps he was already married . Pasalny , lately many men cover only the first marriage so desire berpologami undisturbed or do not want to know his past . Do not let the wedding ceremony took place , one of your guests claiming to be the wife of the man you will marry .
5 . Force Majeur .
Nobody wants affected . However , who can escape ? Similarly, plan your wedding . Although your wedding is ripe prepared if disaster strikes and destroys the building or the house where the reception will be held , you can not prevent it instead . All you can do is move temapt reception with minimal funding or postponing marriage until everything is ready .
6 . Laid off .
Two weeks before the wedding , she received the letter of termination or layoff with severance minimal because the company was insolvent . To find a new job , certainly not as easy as buying hotcakes , while marriage you are in need of considerable costs from the funds in his pocket . Savings ? There is a hell , but plans for later . If the reserve fund is used , then there would be no leftovers for the necessities of life after marriage . As a middle ground , eventually forced marriage mndur until he gets a steady job and steady .
7 . ' Hit-Run ' .
All plans prepared ripe . Anyway biting you and your spouse live in the aisle on the D-day later . However , suddenly appeared with a woman who claimed to know the prospective husband and asked Abda ' accountable . ' How like a soap opera story huh ? True . But it could happen in the real world . Then what would you do in that situation ? Especially after you pressed , he admitted his actions . Do not force to continue the marriage just because you 've already decided to marry him . Consider carefully so as not to regret in the future .
8 . He's Not The One .
Usually a lot of questions arise before the wedding . For example , he's faithful or not ? ARe you would like to spend time with her lifetime ? Especially lately you see many couples decide to divorce . Though you want your wedding to do is once in a lifetime . Not to mention it turns out you're still curious , who knows no better guy out there . If you are experiencing this , the solution is to think back carefully before you change your mind or cancel the wedding .
9 . Meet The Soulmate .
Three months before the wedding , you are met with a man engaging in a cafe . Although the new acquaintance , you feel like are perfectly suited to him . With no intention of even trying your ' way ' with him . After a few weeks , you are more convinced that he is your soulmate . Marriage was jeopardized !
10 . Past refused .
Because do not want any secrets , you decide your Port has a secret past . It turns out that openness and honesty Andajustru produce rejection . He can not accept your past that ( may ) dark . she feels lied to all this time so decided to cancel the wedding .
11 . Quarrel frequently .
You 've established that he's going to be a good husband . But before the D-day , you quarrel with him even more often . As a result, doubts arise . Despite the increased frequency of occurrence of contention before the wedding it is normal due to stress , but the more often you think the fear that he is not your soul mate . But if the attitude he has gone too far , such as hitting , hurting or alter the principles that have been agreed upon , it is better to retreat. Because such a thing will not change even if the name of love or marriage .
12 . Family Matters .
When you and he decide to marry , usually yang'ribut ' instead of just the two . Kedau family will come ' warm up ' the atmosphere . Indeed, there are parents who hand over all affairs to her son. But many also help determine the best for their children . Often family intervention or make your partner uncomfortable . Finally distaste began to emerge . This is where the seeds of the quarrel that ended in annulment was growing .
13 . Can Dream Job .
While we were busy -busy planning a wedding , all of a sudden you get a job offer that has long dreamed of. However , the new job demands / requires you to not be bound by the first marriage at least for a period of 2 years and you must be willing ditemptakan outside the city . For the sake of a dream job , eventually you were desperate postpone the wedding date until the new time will be decided later . You even reckless move to another city for the sake of your new career . Well , life is full of choice! , Whatever your choice , make sure you also be ready to suffer the consequences .
1 . Swelling debt .
The cost of the wedding reception is becoming increasingly expensive to make a lot of people , perhaps including you , are forced to borrow from parents or others to increase the amount of savings . Beware growing debt could be the cause of your wedding may be delayed even canceled . Moreover, if there are many who harsu prepared , forced to use credit cards to overlimit . As a result , the debt was bloated before the big event . In order to avoid increasing the debt , the end date pushed back until your forced marriage and she really ready to be economically or find a way to overcome this problem .
2 . Not Parent Compact .
This happens for example when each parent of the two parties have different desires and can not be combined . Do not underestimate the little things , because great things usually arise from minor problems . Take just one example when the parents of the woman mengehendaki wedding implementation is done by Islam , while the men will insist implement with traditional customs . In this case , you and your partner , must be very clever to bridge these differences , and also neutralize the atmosphere in order to always remain ' cool ' .
3 . Severe pain .
The wedding party you 've reached the H - 7 . However , a sudden you or the he fell ill and had to undergo serious treatment in the hospital during that period could not be determined . If this condition was , inevitably pernikhan had to be canceled or postponed until the sick back to health .
4 . He 's been married .
Before you confident accept his proposal , its status should be investigated first . Is it true that he was single or perhaps he was already married . Pasalny , lately many men cover only the first marriage so desire berpologami undisturbed or do not want to know his past . Do not let the wedding ceremony took place , one of your guests claiming to be the wife of the man you will marry .
5 . Force Majeur .
Nobody wants affected . However , who can escape ? Similarly, plan your wedding . Although your wedding is ripe prepared if disaster strikes and destroys the building or the house where the reception will be held , you can not prevent it instead . All you can do is move temapt reception with minimal funding or postponing marriage until everything is ready .
6 . Laid off .
Two weeks before the wedding , she received the letter of termination or layoff with severance minimal because the company was insolvent . To find a new job , certainly not as easy as buying hotcakes , while marriage you are in need of considerable costs from the funds in his pocket . Savings ? There is a hell , but plans for later . If the reserve fund is used , then there would be no leftovers for the necessities of life after marriage . As a middle ground , eventually forced marriage mndur until he gets a steady job and steady .
7 . ' Hit-Run ' .
All plans prepared ripe . Anyway biting you and your spouse live in the aisle on the D-day later . However , suddenly appeared with a woman who claimed to know the prospective husband and asked Abda ' accountable . ' How like a soap opera story huh ? True . But it could happen in the real world . Then what would you do in that situation ? Especially after you pressed , he admitted his actions . Do not force to continue the marriage just because you 've already decided to marry him . Consider carefully so as not to regret in the future .
8 . He's Not The One .
Usually a lot of questions arise before the wedding . For example , he's faithful or not ? ARe you would like to spend time with her lifetime ? Especially lately you see many couples decide to divorce . Though you want your wedding to do is once in a lifetime . Not to mention it turns out you're still curious , who knows no better guy out there . If you are experiencing this , the solution is to think back carefully before you change your mind or cancel the wedding .
9 . Meet The Soulmate .
Three months before the wedding , you are met with a man engaging in a cafe . Although the new acquaintance , you feel like are perfectly suited to him . With no intention of even trying your ' way ' with him . After a few weeks , you are more convinced that he is your soulmate . Marriage was jeopardized !
10 . Past refused .
Because do not want any secrets , you decide your Port has a secret past . It turns out that openness and honesty Andajustru produce rejection . He can not accept your past that ( may ) dark . she feels lied to all this time so decided to cancel the wedding .
11 . Quarrel frequently .
You 've established that he's going to be a good husband . But before the D-day , you quarrel with him even more often . As a result, doubts arise . Despite the increased frequency of occurrence of contention before the wedding it is normal due to stress , but the more often you think the fear that he is not your soul mate . But if the attitude he has gone too far , such as hitting , hurting or alter the principles that have been agreed upon , it is better to retreat. Because such a thing will not change even if the name of love or marriage .
12 . Family Matters .
When you and he decide to marry , usually yang'ribut ' instead of just the two . Kedau family will come ' warm up ' the atmosphere . Indeed, there are parents who hand over all affairs to her son. But many also help determine the best for their children . Often family intervention or make your partner uncomfortable . Finally distaste began to emerge . This is where the seeds of the quarrel that ended in annulment was growing .
13 . Can Dream Job .
While we were busy -busy planning a wedding , all of a sudden you get a job offer that has long dreamed of. However , the new job demands / requires you to not be bound by the first marriage at least for a period of 2 years and you must be willing ditemptakan outside the city . For the sake of a dream job , eventually you were desperate postpone the wedding date until the new time will be decided later . You even reckless move to another city for the sake of your new career . Well , life is full of choice! , Whatever your choice , make sure you also be ready to suffer the consequences .
